The Heart of Parenting;
Spiritual Parenting in Everyday Life
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Activities
Have
your children make a garland for each season cutting seasonal shapes out of colorful
or season appropriate paper (cookie cutters or stencils, are a good place to
start on the shapes if you aren’t artistically inclined). Older children can
trace or design and cut out their own shapes. Decorate and punch holes in each
shape. Have your children decorate the shapes in any way they wish (glitter,
stickers, markers, crayons, sequins, beads, feathers, etc.). String together or
simply tape or staple the shapes together. On the first shape in the garland
write or have your child write, “Spring is…” or “Fall
is…” whatever the season. On each shape in the garland have your children
brainstorm what that season is for them and write it so that the garland is a
string of words for the season. If you have more than one child one way to keep
the peace is to determine an amount they can each decorate, say 6 or 8,
whatever works. Hang the garland in a spot the children can see daily such as
in the hallway or the kitchen. My 12 year old enjoyed this activity as much as
my 7 and 8 year olds did. This can be an activity the whole family can enjoy as
well.
At
Christmas one of our traditions is our wishing leaves. We cut leaves out of green
paper, punch a hole just above the stem area and loop a string through like a
tree ornament. Each family member gets 3 leaves (3 wishes). We all take our
leaves away and write a wish for the New Year on each one and hang it on the
tree. My children have really surprised me over the years with wishes that were
more altruistic than selfish. I expected to see “i-pod”
or “Barbie of Swan Lake”, etc. on each of my children’s leaves, but instead I
find wishes for “staying a happy family”, “having a good year”, etc.
Family memory book
Create
a family memory book that will hold important memories, moments, feelings,
goals, or even dreams. Encourage all family members to write in the book at
least once a month or once a week if you have more time. Little ones can
dictate to older children or parents. Have a theme of the month or week if you
want or keep as a free for all family journal. Add
pictures, illustrations or mementoes to the pages if desired. This can become
whatever you want it to be, a blog on the web, a Word
document stored on the family computer, a family scrap book with writings contributed
by family along with photos or mementos. Some families who live long distances
may want to make the memory book more encompassing by mailing copies of pages
to one another to add to each other’s books. Ultimately this project can be
done in any way that suits your family style. If done consistently it can be at
treasured keepsake for your children and grandchildren.
People Who Love Me
My
daughters have each made one of these at one point in their lives. My youngest
daughter recently made one after having one of those days where she felt really
down and needed something to pick her back up.
Buy
or make out of construction paper, a small photo album, one about the size to
hold 4x6 photos works really well. Let
your child go through the family snapshots and put pictures of all the people
your child loves. Youngest daughter especially enjoyed adding baby pictures of herself to the album. Your child can decorate the album in
any way she wishes. The book will serve as a constant reminder that there are
so many people in the world who love her and so many people she loves in
return.
“Kindness
in thought leads to wisdom. Kindness in speech leads to eloquence. Kindness in
action leads to love.”
-
Lao-Tsu
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